Dating at the
speed of mail
Slow down and rediscover the art of courtship. Match with someone special, write them a letter, and we will deliver it to their mailbox. Yes, actual paper.
Slow down and rediscover the art of courtship
Each day, receive a curated selection of profiles. Take your time — good matches are worth the wait.
When you both like each other, it's time to write. Craft a thoughtful first letter — no pressure, just authenticity.
Your message becomes a physical letter, delivered to their mailbox. Yes, actual paper. How romantic is that?
Anticipation is part of the magic. Once delivered, your chat unlocks and the conversation continues.
Real stories from people who slowed down and found something real
I met my fiancé through Postdate. His first letter made me cry — in a good way. You can't fake that kind of effort.
Sarah M.
Brooklyn, NY
Finally, an app that rewards thoughtfulness over quick swipes. The anticipation of waiting for a letter is actually exciting.
James K.
Austin, TX
My first letter was three pages. Hers was four. We've been writing to each other ever since — even after we started dating.
Michael R.
Portland, OR
No hidden fees, no gimmicks — just honest plans for honest connections
Dip your toes in and see what slow dating feels like.
For the hopeless romantic who's ready to go all in.
Join thousands of romantics who believe the best things in life are worth waiting for.
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